Personal development encompasses a wide range of options from counselling and pyschotherapy, to ecotherapy and wellbeing coaching. Further information can be found below and our practitioners offer the option of a an initial introductory discussion to determine whether their approach is right for you, your child or your relationship.

Most holistic treatments aim to treat the whole person so if you aren’t keen on talking to someone, do consider one of our physical therapies or contact us for further advice or suggestions.

Counselling

There are several options for Counselling at The Centre either privately with Ester Wheeler, Deborah Lane (clients aged 4-25) or Deborah Parker (children, adults, couples, families) via Petersfield Counselling Service. Details of all options are shown below.

Psychotherapy for Healing and Growth

If you are struggling with the effects of interpersonal trauma, feeling overwhelmed, or seeking personal growth, Ester offers a supportive space where you can heal and rediscover your inner strength. She approaches therapy through a humanistic lens, which means she believes in your capacity for growth and change, and that you are the expert on your own life.

What You Can Expect:

  • A compassionate space where your voice and experiences are heard and valued.
  • Collaboration to identify your needs and work toward healing at your own pace.
  • Support to move through difficult emotions, improve self-esteem, and reclaim your power.
  • A commitment to creating a therapy experience that is truly for you, respecting your identity, experiences, and the unique challenges you face.

A Little about Me and My Approach:

  • I am a Humanistic Therapist: Together, we will explore your unique experiences, strengths, and challenges. I prioritise a warm, empathetic, and co-created relationship, empowering you to find your own path forward.
  • I have a particular interest and work with Interpersonal Trauma: If you’ve experienced relational wounds, such as abuse, neglect, or betrayal, we will work through the impact of these experiences in a way that honours your feelings and pace.
  • I am passionate about Anti-Oppressive Practice and Intersectional Feminist Theory: I recognize how systems of power, discrimination, and societal oppression can affect your sense of self and wellbeing. I am committed to supporting you in a way that is inclusive, respectful, and empowering, regardless of your background or identity.

Each of us is unique and no one’s experiences are ever the same. I work with everyone as an individual but areas I commonly work with are:

  • Neurodivergence
  • Relationship and family breakdown
  • Sex and sexuality
  • Gender identity
  • Historic childhood/developmental abuse and neglect
  • Relation, interpersonal or domestic abuse
  • Sexual abuse, violence, and harassment- recent and non-recent including childhood
  • Suicidal thoughts and/or ideology
  • Trauma, PTSD and Complex PTSD

Deborah is a professionally registered Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist (MBACP), qualified at Masters level, specialising in work with children, adolescents, young people  (aged 4-25), and their families.  

I offer a warm, friendly and compassionate approach, working collaboratively with children and young people to build a trusting therapeutic relationship.  As an integrative therapist, I draw upon a range of creative arts and play resources which can be used to facilitate communication beyond the constraints of language so that difficulties and inner conflicts can be expressed, witnessed, and understood in developmentally appropriate and paced ways. My core foundation is rooted in non-directive play-based therapy, humanistic, psychodynamic and CBT approaches, grounded in a core understanding of attachment and family systems.

I work with a broad range of presentations including anxiety, school avoidance, OCD, depression, low-mood, emotional regulation, trauma, bereavement, family separation, attachment difficulties, low self-esteem, eco- and climate anxiety, self-harm and disordered eating.  

I use a variety of evidence-based techniques, including humanistic, integrative and mindfulness practices, to help clients overcome negative thought patterns and behaviours. I believe in a holistic approach to mental health and explore the ‘patterns & patchwork’ of life in both the mind and body.

I am dedicated to providing compassionate counselling to individuals, couples and families. I help empower clients to make sense of their world, by gently and empathetically evaluating their issues, concerns and stresses, with a view to positive change and outcome.
 
I am a professionally trained, qualified and experienced Psychotherapist Counsellor. I specialise in a variety of areas, including depression, anxiety, trauma, grief and relationship issues. I aim to provide meticulous personalised care to all my clients. I am committed to ongoing training and education in order to stay up-to-date with the latest research and techniques.
Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) is a structured, evidence-based approach that helps individuals understand how their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours are connected. It focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thought patterns and behaviours that contribute to emotional distress.
 
CBT is practical and goal-oriented, teaching coping strategies to manage challenges like anxiety, depression, stress, and low self-esteem. By challenging negative thinking and developing healthier responses, CBT empowers people to break free from limiting beliefs and build a more balanced, fulfilling life.
 
I offer CBT to individuals aged 8 and above, this can be delivered through one-to-one sessions or parent-led support for younger clients. On average, therapy is weekly lasting between 8 to 16 sessions, depending on individual needs.

Clinical Supervision

Do you want to deepen your self-awareness, enhance your skills, and ensure ethical, client-cantered care?

I offer clinical supervision that focuses on the relational dynamics between you, your clients, and the field in-which we all meet. My approach is grounded in humanistic principles, emphasizing empathy, authenticity, and the importance of the therapeutic relationship.

What I offer:

  • Relational, humanistic supervision that prioritises a collaborative and authentic supervisory relationship
  • A creative space for you to reflect on your work, explore challenges, and enhance your professional growth
  • Support in navigating difficult cases, ethical dilemmas, and personal responses to clients
  • Focus on self-awareness and emotional processing within the supervisory space
  • A commitment to your personal and professional development as a humanistic practitioner

About me: I am an experienced counsellor, trained in the humanistic and relational modalities. I draw from Person-Centred, Gestalt, and Existential frameworks to support you in a way that fosters your growth, both personally and professionally. Furthermore, I am experienced and passionate about feminist theory, trauma informed and anti-oppressive practice and integrate this into my all my work. My supervision style is warm, reflective, creative, and rooted in the belief that the supervisory relationship is key to your ongoing development as a therapist.

Supervision is available for counsellor and physiotherapist in individual or group, face to face and online.

Pricing:

  • Initial consultation: FREE
  • Ongoing individual supervision sessions: £80 an hour or £110 1.5 hrs for individual 
  • Ongoing group supervision sessions: £100 an hour

Get in Touch: To book an initial session or call, please contact me at: esterwheelercounselling@outlook.com

Ecotherapy, Wellbeing Coaching & Sound Bath

Ecotherapy

So what is Ecotherapy?

An ever-evolving question and one with a myriad of interpretations that’s often easier to understand experientially as it tends to be rather tricky to capture in words! For the context of these sessions with Emily however, Ecotherapy is rooted in a way of being with the world that speaks to our interconnection with ourselves, each other and nature. Ecotherapy offers a framework for all three of those things to be remembered as one whole living, breathing, interacting organism. A reciprocal relationship in constant conversation and exchange, that all offer insight and reflection to each other. It’s that foundation that infuses Emily’s practise, both personally and professionally here at The Centre.

And how can Ecotherapy support you?

Maybe you don’t know why but you feel you need some space to pause and just catch your breath? Maybe you do know why and there is something specific that has been gnawing away at you that’s calling for some space to be explored, despite feeling rather edgy or some resistance to? Perhaps you’ve been recently bereaved or are going through the waves of grief and don’t know where to take it or what to do with it? Or maybe it’s your anger, numbness, stuckness, exhaustion, disconnection, anxiety, sadness that doesn’t feel like it has a place to be heard or felt?

By coming in to relationship with whatever it is you’re navigating with the natural world in this way, consciously making space and time to turn up with ALL that we are and ALL that we are with, we gift ourselves the opportunity to be heard, held, supported, witnessed and fully known. Whole. The natural world embodies it all, and so do we, yet we live in a culture that so often focuses on just one side of the coin; of summer, of light, of growth. All too often the gifts and magic of the winter, of the dark, of rest are missed. The power and transformational potency that’s also held in slowing down to listen, to soothe and resource our nervous systems by spending this held and intentional time in nature, offers us this chance to come home to the wholeness of who we are. An integral and precious reminder of what we’re part of and an opportunity to build our sense of safety in being in relationship with all that we’re feeling.

It’s not a new practise, as humans we’ve been living in this way since our time here began on this planet, and for many cultures and people this way of being in the world is still very much alive. For us here on this land where we live, so much of life tends to pull us away from this sense of sensing, of feeling, of connection and belonging. The effects of that disconnection within ourselves, our communities and our relationship with the land and it’s inhabitants is evident, not least through our current health and ecological crises. Working together ecotherapeutically, in full community with ourselves, each other and the natural world, can offer us that often much-needed reminder of our ‘place in the family of things’*.

What it is to feel that we are truly welcome, that we truly belong and are supported in ALL that we feel and experience?! In the whole cycle, with all of those feelings of shame, judgement, sensuality, grief, fear or anger that we’re so often told not to feel. What we then have to offer ourselves and the wider world from that place, from that sense of wholeness, is truly something quite exquisite. And perhaps these moments with nature can then invite us in to something much more mystical and magical, experiences that often words often can’t quite capture.

If you want to find out more please have a look at the further resources that Emily has on her website, including her free nature based grounding, or get in touch. She’d love to hear from you 😊

*Quote from Wild Geese by Mary Oliver

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting–
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

What is Wellbeing Coaching?

Wellbeing coaching is a powerful opportunity to prioritise yourself and work towards a more balanced, fulfilling life.

For Sally, wellbeing means feeling in control of your life, understanding yourself, maintaining balance, and learning how to restore balance when needed—all while enjoying the journey.

Embarking on wellbeing coaching allows you to explore different facets of yourself which might include the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Sally’s holistic approach is tailored to meet you where you are right now.

Taking control of your wellbeing is a transformative act of self-care. Far from being selfish, it empowers you to show up as the best version of yourself in relationships, work, and your community.

With Sally as your coach—supporting, cheering, and challenging you—you can confidently navigate life’s complexities and embrace its joys.

How Wellbeing Coaching Can Help

Here are some of the questions that wellbeing coaching can help you explore:

  • Am I as physically and mentally well as I could be?
  • How do my relationships sustain and support me?
  • How can I better manage stress?
  • Where is the joy and fun in my life?
  • How can I navigate a complex, sometimes overwhelming world?
  • What is my purpose? What am I here for?
  • Or simply: How am I doing?

Together, we will define what optimal wellbeing looks like for you and design a personalised path forward. Take the leap—you may be surprised by where it leads.

What to Expect from Wellbeing Coaching

Sally offers flexible options to suit your preferences, including in-person, walking, and online coaching sessions.

Getting Started

  • Enjoy a free 20-minute phone or online consultation to see if working together feels right.
  • Begin with a six-session commitment to lay the foundation for meaningful change.
  • Pay per session, with no obligation to continue if it is not the right fit.

Session Structure

  • Sessions last 1 hour, longer sessions available.
  • Weekly sessions to start, fostering a strong connection and focus.
  • Transition to monthly or ad hoc sessions as needed to maintain progress.

Locations include in-person sessions at The Centre of Complementary Medicine, walking sessions in the Petersfield area, or online coaching.

Individual Sound Baths

Jhoana’s Sound Bath is a gentle and relaxing meditative experience where you are bathed​ by a medley of sound – Jhoana uses a variety of singing bowls, bells, chimes and voice which will bathe you with sound as you lay under the comfort of a blanket. Her Sound Bath is the perfect introduction to meditating as you do not​ need experience – just an open heart and mind. 
 

The individual Sound Baths allow for a dedicated experience to explore intentions and integrate the experience that are worked through at a deeper level.  Jhoana combines therapeutic coaching, the sound bath, aromatherapy and/or flower/plant tea into the individual sound baths for a holistic transformational experience.  She offers clients a safe space to discuss their intentions, goals and what a good life would look like, and the Sound Bath is used to work through any blocks and/or to unlock wisdom. 

Jhoana is a highly experienced facilitator passionate about holistic healing journeys. She trained as a counsellor over 15 years ago and combines the psychological ‘understanding of self’ with meditation, spirituality and plant/flower modalities. She works with people where they are in their own journey and works with people of all faiths and none.